Saturday, September 26, 2009

assignment 2

To be Honest: I Don’t Care
It’s not the first time I read an essay which mention the importance of the first impression when people making friends with strangers. Even though, the first impression is an essential factor in making friends, but I don’t really care my image in others’ eyes. In my opinion, to be yourself is the best impression you can give to others.
Don’t always believe the good impressions; they are always not reliable. It’s very usually to meet a kind of people, who can give you great imagines when you meet them at the first time, but their behaviors will be totally different with what you expected after you become friends. For example, my best friend is my classmate in middle school. When I first met him, he was very shy and speaks less. At that time I though he was nothing cool, but as time went on he slowly turned out his real face; he spoke a lot, very brave, and has great humor. However, a lot of people don’t have the good fortune like mine; sometimes they find a person and expect that person can be their life-long friend, only because the person they meet has some good impressions they want, like confident, good looking, or any other good impressions they want. But, after they made friends, they would always say: such a shuck guy.
To be yourself is the best impression you can give to others. To be yourself means to be honest. Most time when we meet someone new, we are not really want to make friends them, but we want to know a honest person. In fact, if we think about our best friends we already have, most of them are not very well-marked when we met them at the first time. Pretending or acting can never be a good choice when we meet others, and I think a good friend is a gift from destiny. Sometimes, even though you act badly when you meet someone, you can still become friends with them.
When I meet strangers, I won’t believe their first impressions, and I also won’t change myself. I only want to be who I am.

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